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Everyone remember this game?
I once had a MASH fortune predict I would live in a mansion in Malibu, work as an actor, and drive a Ferarri.
Let’s check the facts:
I live in a one bedroom apartment.
In High Point, NC.
Working as a very poor writer.
Driving a beat up ‘84 Dodge Ram and an even more beat up ‘92 Honda Accord.
Thanks alot, MASH. Talk about gettin a kid’s hopes up…
Yesterday, I posted about my eagerness to watch Survivor last night.
Well, I missed it.
And I’m not even remotely upset about it. Because what I did see was a thousand times better.
My best friend, Robbie Hall, is in his first season as head coach of the Penn-Griffen Hawks, a local middle school basketball team. The Hawks were 0-3 going into last night’s game. Tip off was at 6:15. I figured I’d easily be home by 8.
I wasn’t.
You see, the game was an ESPN instant-classic. It went into double overtime (complete with two rimmed out buzzer-beating efforts) before deciding a winner.
Though it was the third game of the season, it was the first one I’d been able to attend, so it was my first chance to watch Robbie in action. And I wasn’t prepared for how proud I’d be when I got there: seeing him working the sidelines in his dress clothes, hollering out plays, studying his players movements on the court.
Now, I’ve been to a couple practices (serving as a horribly ineffectual scrimmage opponent for his team), so I’ve seen practice, but this was different (i.e. “practice? practice? we ain’t even talkin’ bout a game, we talkin’ bout practice…).
As I watched the game unfold, I remembered playing middle school basketball myself, how important I thought it was: how every game seemed life or death, how everything in middle school seemed life or death; and I knew instinctively that it felt the same for these kids, too.
And it occurred to me how right this all was, how these kids were going to be better people because of having someone like Robbie breathing love and support and encouragement and responsibility into their lives. (And trust me, many of these kids sorely need it.)
In the end, the Hawks lost by 6; but it certainly wasn’t for lack of effort. Most importantly, one could actually see these kids (the majority of whom have never, prior to now, played a day of organized basketball) beginning to buy into Robbie’s system.
For my part, I was able, for the first time, to watch my best friend, the boy I’ve known since I was eight, operating in his professional capacity. And it was just another reminder that we are both adults now, that while there will always be a part of me that feels like one of those middle school boys, that I am now a grown man who has to be responsible for more than turning in his homework.
I have a good friend who often blogs about life’s “moments,” about how they are typically small, everyday things that go uncelebrated. Well, yesterday I had my moment, and I’m not sorry at all that it took missing Survivor to witness it.
That being said, please don’t write to me telling me who was voted out… I have a friend with DVR who’s willing to let me come watch.
It is snowing in central North Carolina, which, for those of you unfamiliar with the area, is somewhat rare. We get predictions of “wintery weather” often, but seldom does it amount to much of anything. I’m currently looking out my window, and all I can think about is how beautiful it is. I know that’s not a very masculine thing to say (I mean, one doesn’t typically picture Clint Eastwood or John McClane using the adjective “beautiful”), but it’s the simple truth: There is something so very pure and beautiful about snow. The way it swirls and eddies and suspends before gracing the ground. The way it blankets the earth, hiding all the ugly, bare features of winter.
(… No? Don’t like the Jodi Picoult/Nick Sparks purple prose?)
When it snows, I always begin thinking about C.S Lewis’s Narnia. More specifically, I begin thinking about The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe. LLW is the book that made me fall in love with reading, the book that, ultimately, made me want to be a writer; and to this day, with each book I open, I am climbing into my own wardrobe, hoping to find my way back into a world as affecting as was my first trip to Narnia.
Each time I see the snow begin to fall (which, again, is seldom), I invariably begin thinking of the eternal winter that plagued Narnia prior to Aslan’s return. I picture that haunting scene when the White Witch comes upon Edmund, inviting him onto her sleigh and feeding him Turkish Delights (btw, I still don’t know what Turkish Delight is. I always pictured Edmund plucking little Thanksgiving-turkey-bites from a golden, Christmas tin. Still do, I guess).
Ultimately, I begin thinking of how miserable the snow made the citizens of Narnia, of how they pined for sun and summer and flowers. And I begin wondering at how miserable life really would be to never know a world outside of snow and winter.
I suppose what I’m trying to say is that thinking about all of this makes me grateful for the temporality of seasons, for how spring and summer and fall and winter find us and grace us and leave us at just the right moments.
Just another thing for me to be thankful for this holiday season.
